How do women become confident and powerful in business or in any other aspect of life? Too often as women we accommodate and follow. We take a path we may not fully resonate with because we want to do the “right thing” or be a “good girl.” We allow our ambivalence to lead instead of our clear intentions. Does your self-talk embrace confidence, or ambivalence? We can blame our lack of success on circumstances we see as outside our control. Yet the confidence to define things differently is always within our control. Confidence is not about belief in something outside of ourselves. It’s that true place inside where we know what we want.