We all want the same basics for our children. Yet too often, it just doesn’t happen the way we want—and so many of our children are growing up to go out into the world woefully unprepared for the challenges and demands they will face. Why? The simple answer, says Julie Abarzua, is time. Don’t buy the myth of “quality time,” says Julie; as her own story beautifully illustrates, successful parenting takes quantity time.